They say travel changes you. It's the most important thing you do in life that you will ultimately receive more in return than your initial investment. I say, "Bravo. Change me." Castellammare del Golfo did not fall short of its charge.
Len's grandfather immigrated from Castellemmare del Golfo in 1908. His name, Salvatore Lentini. He changed the spelling - Lentini to Lentine - once he arrived to differentiate his family from the others. It was if the boat was waiting for us. "I come from here. This is my homeland."
     Our first conclusion: driving in Italy is a sport. In Rome, it seemed as thought constant movement was the key. Anticipation. Never going slower or faster than the other driver anticipated. Consequently, driving on the island of Sicily was even more challenging than on the mainland. As long as we were roamed along the motor highways - the stradas, challenges were few. However, inside the small towns - Lentini, Agrigento, Catania -  with the even smaller streets proved frustrating. Yes, being towed in Syracusa left us with a nasty taste in our mouth, a lighter wallet, and a little wiser about Italian street signs; however, we pressed onward. Even with a paper map (no matter what, always have a paper map), we relied on our iPhone's GPS to guide us, making me think: what did we do before that unseen, monotone voice called out from the void when the next turn was imminent? The little voice never left us, but we noticed it began to ramble, talk over itself, become confused. It didn't take us long to understand why.
     Once we arrived in Castellammare del Golfo on the northern coast of western Sicily, our host provided us with a parking pass steps from our apartment. That alone was worth every cent we paid to stay.  The car rested until it was time to leave. Walking would be the main mode of transportation from now until our departure.
Once it became dark, many streets became pedestrian walkways. Thus, the importance of knowing the traffic patterns. (Below) Along the waterfront was the most bee hive of activity even in the off-season. The number of tourists during the off-season, 10,000; in the heat of the summer when the coastal town awakes, 100,000. One of our favorite images of an older Fiat. We quickly understood the reason for such small vehicles - they were easily maneuvered through tiny streets.
    Arriving in the city was actually the easy part; leaving proved almost deadly. With car-width wide streets in some sections sandwiched in between massive rock structures, we followed a route which seemed to make sense. Confused GPS woman kept instructing and we kept following. Round and round we went in what was one single block; then, Len turned right. People came out of their homes as we descended the narrow street. "Stop," I screamed as I began to read the confused faces of the people. Down disappeared into a series of steps which disappeared into the ocean; reverse was the best option as the Italian Job played in my head and my heart skipped several beats. It was time to try another way out without the little voice's help. It was time to leave this heavenly city.   
     The second realization: the historic center holds the mystic of any city. I'm sure there were other areas of equal intrigue, but for me, this is the street in which I found refuge. Corso Giuseppe Garibaldi. It seems with each new town we visit, we uncover special places, unique coffee shops, pastoral spots, comforting restaurants which keep us from expanding any further. Is that a bad thing? It could be unless you make it work. It can be a great thing if it gives you what you need.

     The third truth: you must find your connection to a place. For us, it was finding Lucia and Cesare. It was finding family. It can also be searching and finding a place that strengthens your soul, provides peace, heals wounds, transports you into another world if only for a short time. That's the kind of place to which you will return. This is Castellemmare del Golfo.

From the Water
"See that boat. Tell them you know me. They take you out." Our host Giuliano tells us upon arrival to go explore and the man under the tent will help us if we require a boat. Knowing someone may or may not have its perks. We throw around Giuliano's name with no response, but we know we must get on the water. The boat belonged to Lionel Ritchie (yes, you heard it right) - the company Lionel Ritchie. They rent small boats, catamarans, along with a guide. They initially tell us they have a party of eight, so no room for us. We watched and when no party of eight showed up, we got the boat for a two-hour tour for 25 euros each. Our driver Marco - everyone is named Marco he says - spoke very little to us until we got upon the caves and far away shores. Little explanation was needed for this secluded place of caves sculpted from the sea over many lifetimes.

Along the coastline of the gulf, high peaked mountains close these small seaside villages in from the rest of the country. Most are extremely popular in the high season (July and August) when the heat and the visitors rise. Reachable by train and bus line, most of the people whom we saw were walking down paths to reach the beaches. Scopello is the first tiny hamlet from Castellemmare. Along the coastline, you see the Riserva Naturale dello Zingaro, Sicily's first nature reserve. It is an unspoiled seven kilometer stretch of coastline (entrances at Scopello and San Vito Lo Capo - further north). We could see walkers dotting the terrain the entire way. Take plenty of water for it's rough and water stops are few.

When You Go

Catamarano Lionel Richie - boat tours along the Golfo Del Castellammare
Ristorante La Cambusa - fine dining steps from the harbor
Vogue Bar - dive bar (as they say) and meeting place by evening, coffee house and cafe by day
Veranda sul Porticciolo - Studio 1 - a charming one room apartment sitting along the main street of the city
Sweet Bon Bon - gift shop, along Corso Giuseppe Garibaldi
The Rough Guide to Sicily 2017
Lonely Planet Sicily 2017
Riserva Naturale dello Zingar - 5 euros, park admission